When Someone Asks How You Are
It's OK to say that you are fine even if you don't feel good. Not only do you not have to share, but they likely don't have the time to listen anyway.
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I am on a personal journey to discover myself and to better understand my role in the universe. To live a good life and to be a good husband, parent and provider. Where possible share the knowledge that I collected.
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