When someone asks you something you're unsure about
Here are a few ways to buy yourself more time to assess the situation.
- "I need a minute to regroup. Can we talk about this in an hour?"
- "Can we chat about this later today, after I've had some time to consider it?"
- To a friend who wants you to go to a dinner that sounds boring: "I'm going to say no to dinner, but I'd love to catch up another time."
- To the colleague who wants you to help with an extra project: "I can't, unfortunately. But once I finish up my current deadline, I can see if there's a way I can support you."
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