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When someone asks you something you're unsure about
Here are a few ways to buy yourself more time to assess the situation.
- "I need a minute to regroup. Can we talk about this in an hour?"
- "Can we chat about this later today, after I've had some time to consider it?"
- To a friend who wants you to go to a dinner that sounds boring: "I'm going to say no to dinner, but I'd love to catch up another time."
- To the colleague who wants you to help with an extra project: "I can't, unfortunately. But once I finish up my current deadline, I can see if there's a way I can support you."
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When a line has been crossed
When someone has crossed a line, you should open up the conversation alerting the other person to your feelings, concerns, or objections.
Some conversation starters:
- "I thought you should know..."
- "I wanted to bring something to your attention. I felt uncomfortable wh...
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When someone is giving you unsolicited advice
- If you want to share something with a friend or colleague who likes to offer their opinion, say: "I want to share what's going on and would appreciate it if you can listen without offering advice or criticism."
- Another way to stop auto-advice: "At ...
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What to say to deflect nosy questions
You don't owe anyone personal information, especially not to satisfy their curiosity.
- To someone asking how much money you earn: " Trust me, not even close to what I'm worth."
- To someone who asks about your love life: "I'd rather not talk ab...
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When someone is judgmental or critical of you
When a friend, family member or colleague makes a rude comment and then says," I'm just honest," you may feel inclined to accept their words. Don't. If you know them to be genuine, you will know when to be open to their feedback.
Comments about how you wore the wrong dress...
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#1. When someone asks something you’re just not sure about
It can be helpful to buy some time to analyze the situation and figure out what we want exactly.
- "I need some time to think. Can we pick this up in half an hour?" Or, "Can we talk about this later today, after I’ve had more time to think about it?”
When someone is giving you unsolicited advice
- If you want to share something with a friend or colleague who likes to offer their opinion, say: "I want to share what's going on and would appreciate it if you can listen without offering advice or criticism."
- Another way to stop auto-advice: "At ...
What to say to deflect nosy questions
You don't owe anyone personal information, especially not to satisfy their curiosity.
- To someone asking how much money you earn: " Trust me, not even close to what I'm worth."
- To someone who asks about your love life: "I'd rather not talk ab...
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