Dealing With Haters - Day 42 - Deepstash

Dealing With Haters - Day 42

  • When someone has a strong opinion about something, it usually says more about them than whatever or whomever the opinion happens to be. This is especially true when it comes to resentment and hatred of other people.
  • A Stoic does two things. They ask: Is this opinion inside my control? If there is a chance for influence or change, they take it. But if there isn't, they accept this person as they are (and never hate a hater).
  • Our job is tough enough already. We don't have time to think about what other people are thinking, even if it's about us.

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