EMERY LEE

• If I had more time, I would do X.
• If I say or do X, people will think I’m stupid.
• If I just say or do X, then that person will finally change.
• Everything is great/Everything sucks.
• There’s something inherently wrong or different about me.
• ...

That being said, I always remind my clients that whoever gives a number first puts themselves at a disadvantage. This is why I think the best answer to this questions goes a little something like this:

“I’m flexible when it comes to salary; my number one priority right now is findin...

For example, if someone feels like you’ve been cold to them, instead of saying, “I feel like you’re being cold sometimes,” they will say, “I can’t date someone who is cold to me." 

It’s crucial for both people in a relationship to know that negative thoughts and feelings ca...