There’s a difference between talking to someone you want to be like versus someone you don’t want to be like. If you like the person, you’re receptive, open, and sponge-like. As a result, you learn. You advance. This “mentor” is like a model of the future you. Call them, keep it short, and ask just one question. In a few minutes, you’ll get a vision of yourself that motivates you for the rest of the day.
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