1. Hear to learn, not to reply. - Deepstash
1. Hear to learn, not to reply.

1. Hear to learn, not to reply.

Many of us are bad at listening because we enjoy expressing our opinions and speaking out even if we have to interrupt. As a result, we are always focused on responding to others rather than trying to understand them because we frequently confuse listening with hearing. Listening entails far more than hearing.

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