Acknowledging everyone around you
Socially intelligent people acknowledge absolutely everyone and show respect: the person holding the door, someone sharing the elevator, or the person serving them coffee.
Look away from your phone from time to time; make it a point to smile and say hello to the persons you encounter.
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And the best way to build their strong network is by helping others to grow theirs.
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Socially intelligent people enjoy learning about the perspectives, thoughts, and feelings of the people around them.
Socially intelligent people give the person they are speaking with their whole attention.
The fastest way for people to like you is by showing them that you like them. You can do that by really listening to what they are saying. Ask questions and listen. You may be surprised by how effective it is when it comes to building relationships.
Observe the thoughts that come up and do not judge yourself for having them. If you have unkind thoughts, ask yourself if you would speak to any other human being the same way you speak to yourself.
You deserve to be spoken to kindly, just like you would speak to a friend.
We search for a source to our suffering and we tend to settle on people as the source of the misery because we know that people are capable of being responsible for what they’ve done.
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