The Romantic script is delusional

It's normative points include:

• we should meet a person of extraordinary inner and outer beauty and immediately feel a special attraction to them, and they to us
• we should understand one another intuitively
• we don’t need an education in love
• we should have no secrets and spend constant time together
• we should raise a family without any loss of intensity
• our lover must be our soulmate, best friend, co-parent, co-chauffeur, accountant, household manager and spiritual guide