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What is their love language?

What is their love language?

How do they show affection to others and what degree? What are the exceptions? How do they show affection to family and to friends? How do they feel about strangers? People often show strong feelings of affection towards others important to them - this includes teachers, family members, friends, and pets. How do they show it?

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What is their ‘emergency kit’?

What is their ‘emergency kit’?

What does the character need to live? Maybe their favorite gum or water bottle? Do they always use the same bag whenever leaving the house? Maybe your character keeps an extra pair of socks in her bag. Maybe she keeps a small thing of tissues. What they consider necessary items often show a lot a...

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Who are they?

Who are they?

Beginning to flesh out a new character can be difficult. While there are many ways to do it, we often find ourselves skipping over really important things!

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Writing disabilities and flaws

Writing disabilities and flaws

Writing realistic disabilities, both physical and mental, are crucial. If you have a solider returning from war, they likely have PTSD. A car crash survivor might also experience that but in a different way. Trauma is tied to circumstance. And for wheelchair users, they need a ramp to get somewhe...

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How do they speak?

How do they speak?

Do they have a stutter? Do they say ‘like’ and ‘um’ a lot? How fast do they talk? In short sentences or long ones? How else does their voice and speech pattern affect their personality and the way their socialize? Often times, if someone has a stutter, they tend to be more withdrawn. How can you ...

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How does sentiment affect their life?

How does sentiment affect their life?

Does your character have sentimental items? What are they? Where did they come from? Where do they keep them? Often times, a character’s sentimental items tell a lot about them. You can show that someone’s dad is important to them by the photos, objects, etc, given to them by their dad that they ...

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Mannerisms and Habits

Mannerisms and Habits

What makes you, you? Often times people have habits unique to them. Sure, they shower and brush their teeth, but does your character always put his mug in the same place? Does she always cuff her pants? What little things/actions belong to them and them only? Figuring out what makes that characte...

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How do their likes and interests affect their character?

How do their likes and interests affect their character?

I’ve learned a general rule that often applies in writing and real life: if someone likes only old music or old movies, refusing to try new stuff, they are not open to change. How can you reflect their personality in what they like? Are they studious and keep books in their car in case of a long ...

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Mind your language

How you say something is as important as what you say. 

  • Do not use extremes. Accusations such as, ‘you never,’ ‘you always’ do not add any value to your argument.
  • Use ‘I’ statements emphasizing how you feel, rather than ‘you.’ 

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