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Enjoying The Single Life

Enjoying The Single Life

When you're single, you can talk to whoever you want at the bar, swipe left and right all day long, and do whatever your heart desires. A relationship is likely to constrain one's freedom of choice and giving up that freedom is difficult for some.

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Peer Pressure

Peer Pressure

People who are very connected to their peers are going to go along with the morals and community rules set by this group. And if this group is all about being single, and they frown on couples who are committed, getting into a commitment will mean losing the approval of this peer group.

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Wondering If There’s a Better Partner

Wondering If There’s a Better Partner

Indecisiveness makes some feel that committing to a perfectly fine partner will limit their chances for someone better they haven't met yet.

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Fear Of a Relationship’s Failure

Fear Of a Relationship’s Failure

Even if they've dated for years, and everything is good, they think that making an official commitment means they're going to fail.

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Fear Of Abandonment

Fear Of Abandonment

Some fear commitment because they are afraid that the relationship will be so good, that when their partner abandons them, it will be unbearably painful. 

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Losing Their Independence

Losing Their Independence

Some value independence more than a relationship. They don't want to have to answer to good or consider anyone when it comes to deciding things so commitment becomes unattractive.

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Poor Relationships With The People On The Partner's Life

If you or your partner fear each other's family and friends, this may become an obstacle to a healthy, happy relationship and lead to fear of commitment.

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Going Through a Nasty Divorce

Going Through a Nasty Divorce

Divorce can be soul-crushing and those who go through it are often afraid of commitment because they worry it will lead to another divorce down the line.

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Bad Past Relationships

Bad Past Relationships

When a relationship goes sour, it can be hard to get over. And some take time to be single for a bit. Distaste from a previous or current relationship can be enough to keep someone from committing to a new relationship in the future.

The idea of a commitment to this person seems like mis...

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