• We know that a habit cannot be eradicated. Instead, it must be replaced. Most habits are most malleable when the golden rule is applied:
• To change a habit, you must keep the old cue, and deliver the old reward, but insert a new routine.
1. Use the same cue.
2. Provide the same reward.
3. Change the routine.
• Almost any behaviour can be transformed if the cue and reward stay the same.
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