A Proper Frame Of Mind - Day 180 - Deepstash

A Proper Frame Of Mind - Day 180

  • We resent the person who comes in and tries to boss us around. This is because we are independent, self-sufficient people. Or at least that's what we tell ourselves.
  • Yet if someone says something we disagree with, something inside us tells us we have to argue with them.
  • We would never let another person jerk us around the way we let our impulses do. It's time we start seeing it that way - that we're not puppets that can be made to dance this way or that way just because we feel like it. We should be the ones in control, not our emotions because we are independent, self-sufficient people.

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