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How to have a good first impression

  • The Whazat Technique: Ask questions (About something unusual ideally for a complete stranger) to start a conversation.
  • Never just give a naked introduction. Share something interesting about the person.
  • Be a word detective. Listen to clues and what the other person is telling you for topics of conversation.
  • Avoid the quick ‘me too’.  Let the other person discuss his or her interest before you reveal yours.

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