Charm is defined as your likability - how pleasant it is to interact with you.
And it is possible to train yourself to be charming.
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Manipulation is tricking someone into liking you, while charm is just portraying yourself in the best light possible so others can relate and appreciate you. The former is frowned upon, and the latter is a basic social skill.
Having charm is not about deceiving others. Keep strong negative feelings to yourself, do your best to reveal who you are and if you disagree with something, do so nicely.
No matter how charming you are, there is no guarantee a conversation will lead into a relationship...
Focus on what the reward is when you take action.
Be very selective about what you let into your experience and surround yourself with to keep your energy as clean as possible to achieve the goals you want.
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