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Why Ego is The Greatest Opponent to Your Creativity and Success (And How to Fight Back)

Confidence vs Ego

Confidence vs Ego
  • Confidence is based on what is real and it's earned. It does not alienate us from others.
  • Ego is based on delusion and wishful thinking. It is artifice and makes us self-centered.

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