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How We Judge Others is How We Judge Ourselves
Recognize our own fixation
Recognize how you measure yourself and consciously choose your metric. Also, realize that everyone has their own criteria that will not be the same as yours.
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Our own reality
Everyone has their own reality. The concept of a “personal brand” is to let others know who you are because if you don't, others will.
But, the reality is that although you can guide people, you can't fully manage how they'll perceive you. Everyone has their own reality and their own interpretation of the facts, their environment, and other people.
We see what we look for
We tend to assume that our perceptions of sights, sounds, textures, and tastes are an accurate portrayal of the real world. But when we find ourselves fooled by a perceptual illusion, we realize that what we perceive, is our brain's best guess at what that world is like.
Different perceptions
No-one will ever view us as we view ourselves.
We should consider if we are entitled to be seen by others the way we see ourselves.
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Discover Your Values
Being able to achieve a success metric is hard, but knowing which metric to achieve is even more important. Discover what you value and choose your own metrics for success, otherwise, your environment will dictate it for you, which could be unfulfilling for you.
Work towards your own idea of success and don’t let “FOMO” make you feel like a failure because you’re not meeting someone else’s metrics for success.
Peter Drucker
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Self-awareness -> Self Improvement
You need self-awareness before you can achieve self-improvement.
If you're serious about getting better at something, then one of the first steps is to know—in black-and-white terms—where you stand.
Self-awareness and change
Measurement bings self-awareness in line with reality. Once you're aware of what's actually going on, you can make accurate decisions