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The Core Issue

The Core Issue

When a proposed course of action is wrong according to you, try to understand the core issue, or reasons, that led to the decision, instead of complaining. This will help find common ground with others and take the discussion in the right direction.

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Spending a large amount of time with someone literally causes you to pick up their habits. Choose your friends wisely.

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