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Helping The Isolated

Helping The Isolated

For years, people have thought that to help people who are lonely, you have to put them together. But the worst thing you can do for a lonely person is try to help them without asking them for help in return — a concept based on mutual aid and protection. Instead, we need to help them have a new sense of worth. We can ask them for their advice.

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The Thirst For Love

The Thirst For Love

If you don’t feel that you have a meaningful relationship, it’s as if you are socially thirsty, and your brain sends a signal to tell you that you need to help your social body. Some of the same alarms activated when people are thirsty are activated when people feel socially disconnected from oth...

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A Long Distance Connection

A Long Distance Connection

Yes, you can stay connected with others even if you are physically alone in a room.

Close your eyes right now and think about the person you love the most. Now, think about the last time you made them laugh out loud. Does that bring a smile to your face? We store these positive memories in ...

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Being In Love Lowers Anxiety

Being In Love Lowers Anxiety

Our levels of serotonin, a key hormone in regulating appetite and intrusive anxious thoughts, fall down. So when we are in love we might find ourselves eating irregularly or fixating on small details, worrying about sending “the perfect text,” “saying the perfect words” and then replaying the tex...

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Love Heals, According To Science

Love Heals, According To Science

When we start feeling a deep sense of calm and contentment with our partner, brain areas are activated that trigger not just basic emotions, but also more complex cognitive functions. This can lead to several positive results, like pain suppression, more compassion, better memory and greater crea...

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Love Is Needed To Survive

Love Is Needed To Survive

Love is a biological necessity, just like water or exercise or food. My research has convinced me that a healthy love life — which could include your beloved partner, your closest circle of friends, your family and even your favorite sports team — is as essential to a person’s well-being as a goo...

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The Paradox Of Loneliness

The Paradox Of Loneliness

No one feels guilty when they are thirsty, right? So no one should feel guilty when they are lonely.

There is a paradox in loneliness; we want to approach others, but the lonely mind has been lonely for so long that it detects more threats — inaccurately, of course — and makes you want to w...

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Love And Your Brain

Love And Your Brain

When we’re falling in love with someone, the first thing we notice is how good it feels. It’s because the brain releases feel-good neurotransmitters that boost our mood. When we find love, it is like biological fireworks. Our heart rate is elevated, our levels of the so-called love hormone oxytoc...

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Love Yourself, Love Your Life, Love Your Passion

Love Yourself, Love Your Life, Love Your Passion

Love doesn’t have to be with a living person. If you are really in love with life, with your passion, with your hobby, it can also be a buffer against loneliness.

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"At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet." - Plato

Love, and how it changes our brain.

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The Effects Of Asking For Help

The Effects Of Asking For Help

Asking for help can aid us when times are tough and can give others the opportunity to make a difference while helping them feel more comfortable to ask for help themselves.

Asking for help ultimately opens up opportunities for the betterment of both parties and brings people closer....

"You", "them", "we"

Put yourself in the other person’s shoes and ask, “What’s in it for them?”

When we seek assistance or buy-in, asking for an opinion produces a critic. Asking for advice provides a partner.

Pay attention to your pronouns as well: "You" is selfish. "Them " is...

Let the other shine .

Let the other shine .

  • The key is to state the advice simply and clearly and then let the other speak, always respecting the 80/20 rule.
  • When it comes to asking for advice, we are placing the conversation firmly on the other person's court, ...

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