The cliche goes that therapists nod their heads wisely and say: “And how did that make you feel?” They do say this sometimes; and in fact, when no one has ever asked you this question before, it’s extremely powerful when they do, repeatedly.
This repetition starts to have an effect: it makes you see that your feelings are valid; they aren’t right or wrong – they just are.
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Therapy does not solve your problems, it makes you strong and self-sufficient to handle problems.
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