3. Talking Openly
Ask each other about:
a. what would you do when you're married?
b. How would you live if you are married?
c. How would you raise your children?
d. What religion would you raise your children?
e. How often would you go to church?
f. Public or private school would you like to put in your children?
g. Where you would like to live cities or provinces?
h. Do you enjoy traveling or stay inside the house?
i. How important is it to you be close with your family when you're married?
j. How important is money to you?
k. How much money do you think we need to have for us/you to be happy?
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Marriage nowadays is overlooked, most couples are going separate ways because they find something that they don't know about their partner, that made them not compromising leading to breakups. Marriage should be valued and made God the center of it.
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