Don’t ignore it – Examine the negative claims your inner critic makes about you, recognizing them as emotionally and mentally destructive.
Check its facts – Ask if there’s any evidence supporting the negative stories you tell yourself.
Respond rationally to overgeneralization – When you catch yourself using words like “always,” and “everyone,” replace them with reasonable statements.
Avoid negative people – Don’t let cynical, demoralized or pessimistic people monopolize your time.
Talk to yourself like you would to a friend – Give yourself the advice you’d give a good friend without any insults.
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