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Stay In Your Lane

Stay In Your Lane

  • Focus on what you can control.
  • Many human behaviours are actions signalling to others what kind of person you are or what group you belong to.
  • You can't make somebody value the things you value, but you can gently demonstrate that valuing them makes the world a better place.

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Look Inward

Look Inward

If you're motivated to stop hurtful critiques, you have to evaluate their source

Ask yourself why you're upset by this behaviour or what purpose your anger or annoyance serves in this instance.

Reframe judgmental thoughts.

Look back on previous moments of judgment and think abou...

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Casting Judgement

Casting Judgement

It's easy to be judgemental of others nowadays. Judgment is a signal that someone's behaviour is unusual or out of context to your particular in-group.

In today's mobile, digitally facilitated world, judgment can take on new, toxic forms.

When you silently cast judgment on someone fro...

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Practice Curiosity, Compassion, and Empathy

Practice Curiosity, Compassion, and Empathy

  • When people buck social conventions, those casting judgments are often quick to be offended before considering a reason why someone else is engaging in that behaviour.
  • Curiosity is the antidote for judgment.
  • Think about how the person you're judging knows abo...

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5. You often play the victim

Life is full of challenges, but it's important to take responsibility for your actions and reactions, rather than blaming others. This allows for personal growth and healthier relationships.

Signs of playing the victim include:

  • Blaming others and feeli...

The dichotomy of control

Because Stoics believe that true good resides in a person's character and actions, they would focus on what they can control, not what they can't.

What happens to you is never directly under your control, but your thoughts and actions are. Hence, It's not events that upset you but inst...

Shaking off underestimation

When you are underestimated, it's vital to know that the situation has nothing to do with your capabilities. It might be triggered by racism, gender, age, etc.

Consider what you can control. You can't control how others behave, but you can focus on what yo...

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