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How To Unfixate

To un-fixate from an object of one's affection, you have to tell yourself that you never really liked the person, and the qualities you liked in them, can be found in others.

By dissecting and investigating the character, you can help isolate the traits you liked, and can eventually find them in other people.

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"And in the end, the love you take, is equal to the love you make…" ~ The Beatles

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