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How Will You Measure Your Life?
Guiding your life decisions
The best way to find answers to life decisions is to understand the framework that guides the answers.
With the framework in mind, anyone can answer their own questions more insightful than an outsider can.
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Find answers to these questions
- How can I be sure that I’ll be happy in my career?
- How can I be sure that my relationships with my spouse and my family become an enduring source of happiness?
- When life sends you in the wrong direction, how can you be sure you'll stay out of jail?
Happiness in your career
Frederick Herzberg states that the motivator in our lives isn't money.
- The motivator is the opportunity to learn;
- To grow in responsibilities;
- To contribute to others;
- To be recognized for achievements.
Build people up
How you interact with people affect their lives.
For instance, if an employee feels underappreciated, frustrated and undervalued, her self-esteem will be affected. In turn, it will influence how she interacts with her family. But, if she had learned a lot and are recognized for her achievements, she will positively affect her spouse and children.
The deep rewards in life come from building up people.
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- When we meet people, we look at them and subconsciously make a decision in our heads about their importance, relevancy or their being of any interest to us.
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- Identify and connect with people whom you wouldn't normally connect with, adding diversity to your social universe.
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The Essential Things
Normally we are tied up in the unessential, the trivial, small demands that take up our time and energy.
We need to prioritize the essential, the important, the things that really matter in life, like family, relationships, meaningful work, and what we love to do.
Let Go
Let go of the things that are limiting you:
- your excuses for not keeping your promises
- your small thinking
- your irrational fears
- you being attached to outcomes rather than to the process
- your complaining instead of problem-solving
- your self-sabotage.
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Confirmation bias
Is the human tendency to seek, interpret and remember information that confirms pre-existing beliefs.
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Confirmation bias affects you in 3 ways:
- How you seek information - how you look at the world around you
- How you interpret the information in front of you - the information you process tends to favour your beliefs
- How you remember things - you interpret and possibly even change memories and facts in your head based on your beliefs
Being wrong and self-image
You seek evidence that confirms your beliefs because being wrong feels unpleasant.
Being wrong means you’re not as smart as you thought. So you end up seeking information that confirms what you already know.
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