Effortless Impression
Have an abundance mindset. Set the belief that no person or one event is more important than the other as this is the EGO talking.
Consider your conversations as an opportunity for partnership rather than a zero-sum game. As much as people are lucky to work with you, you are lucky to work with them. It's a partnership, a win-win situation for all involved.
Example
• You are not selling to the other person but simply helping them find a solution
Let the other people earn YOUR favor
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