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You don’t know how to say no

You don’t know how to say no to a plan, a commitment, or someone else’s request. This lack of assertiveness ends up taking away the time you might’ve had for other important things you want to do. Finding time for yourself should always be your top priority. So make sure you prioritize yourself and your well-being above others.

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