Either you have the blaming mindset or the winning... - Deepstash

Either you have the blaming mindset or the winning mindset.

The first category likes to play the victim, and blame their misfortune in life for their failures. The second type of people takes responsibility for their actions, especially when life throws challenges at them. You should aim to become more like the second type, and then examine your focus. Are you oriented toward the future or the past?

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