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Our values determine our problems, and our problems determine our lives.
MARK MANSON
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Choose what deserves your time, attention and efforts
Have less things to worry about, and instead, find something meaningful to utilise your time
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The self-awareness onion
There are three layers to being self-aware:
- Understanding the emotion
- Understanding why we feel that way
- What are my values that are making me feel this way? What do I consider to be a success or a failure?
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Listen to your emotions before acting on them
Emotions are teachers. While negative emotions do indicate something's not right, and something needs to be changed, positive emotions are rewards for doing something good and right
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Be in love with the process, and not the result
Life is a path full of struggles. Struggles are inevitable. One needs to be in love with the process, with the fight, and not with the result and victory.
People who are great at something become great by, first, humbly accepting that they're not already great. Then, they work hard. That's...
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Certainty is the enemy of growth
Learning is not the process of going from wrong to right, but rather, from wrong to slightly less wrong.
Accepting inherent imperfections in our values is necessary for growth. We must learn to doubt - doubt our beliefs, our feelings and be uncertain of what the future holds for us.
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Happiness comes from solving problems, and therefore, it's a form of action, and not a state of being.
MARK MANSON
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Ignoring clutter and choosing selectively is the name of the game. Everyone has problems, a lot of them. Using harsh truths in a simplistic way, the author provides simple but difficult to implement hacks to living a better life. Also, this would be a preview to "The Courage to be Disliked" in my opinion!
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6. Values
Values are like emotional hot buttons that drive our behavior. They are what we value as important in our lives.
All of us regard values like ‘success,’ ‘freedom,’ ‘security,’ ‘love,’ and ‘happiness’ very differently. It is the way we internally rank these values that determine the choices ...
A Definition of values
“(Values) are the principles that give our lives meaning and allow us to persevere through adversity”
- The Self-Confidence Workbook.
Write About Your Values
Writing about our personal values can make us feel loving, powerful, connected and in control while increasing our sense of power and empathy. It also makes us connect them with the events in our lives, helping reveal the deeper meanings and underlying reasons behind those events.
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