The Upholder, The Questioner, The Obliger, The Rebel
Rubin has written a book called The Four Tendencies and has provided an online quiz that we can take to determine which of the Four Tendencies best describes us:
- Upholder (responsive to both inner and outer expectations)
- Questioner (responsive only to inner expectations)
- Obliger (responsive only to outer expectations) or
- Rebel (resistant to both inner and outer expectations).
According to a representative sample, the distribution of the tendencies is 41% Obligers, 24% Questioners, 19% Upholders, and 17% Rebels.
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