38. You May Be a Bad Judge of Your Friends - Deepstash

38. You May Be a Bad Judge of Your Friends

You may have a poor perception of your own friendships. According to research from Tel Aviv University and Massachusetts Institute of Technology, only half of your friends consider you their own buddy.  

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39 Psychological Facts About Friendship

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