If you don’t currently have a passion or calling,... - Deepstash

If you don’t currently have a passion or calling, then before asking yourself “How do I want or need to change my personality?” it might be more rewarding and effective to ask “What matters to me?” or “Who do I want to be?”

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Be Who You Want: Unlocking The Science of Personality Change

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