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And there's one other thing to listen for while they're yakking. The word "I" can be very telling...
Powerful people don't say it much . Less powerful people say it the most:
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Okay, so you know when to trust your gut. Now there are a gazillion studies on behavior, so let's focus on reading people to get answers to the questions we all want to know, like...
Of course, people trying to deceive or manipulate you are going to fake signals that they are trustworthy.
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So we need to focus on unconscious behaviors that aren't easily controlled and convey a clear message.
In Honest Signals: How They Shape Our World , the authors mention one to keep your eye on:
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A class ring. T-shirts with slogans. Tattoos. Pay attention to them because they're usually accurate signs. Here's Sam :
Now this is all pretty personal. So what about if you're trying to read someone in a professional co...
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And there's one other thing to listen for while they're yakking. The word "I" can be very telling...
Powerful people don't say it much . Less powerful people say it the most:
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Beyond that, trust people who are consistently emotionally expressive in their body language:
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