29. If there's something bothering you, ask yourself whether it will matter in one month. If not, let it go right now.

24. It doesn’t have to be perfect for it to be wonderful.

10. Always remind yourself that your track record for making it through your bad days is perfect.

21. Whenever you hug someone, make sure they are the one to let go first.

32. Stubborn pride is the downfall of many men and women. Learn to forget the slight hurts and avoid grudges.

26. Looking presentable is a matter of self-respect.

35. Allow your kids to fail. You will hate it, but it's so important.

39. Smile and say good morning to strangers on the street.

25. When in doubt, love. We can always use more love.

30. Stop trying to change people who don’t want to be changed.

20. The "good old days" are always happening right now.

6. Never raise your voice, except for at a ballgame.

37. No amount of money is ever worth trading for your peace of mind.

7. Do one good deed every single day, but never tell anyone about it.

A 32-year-old asked 90-year-olds what advice they would give their younger selves and they deliveredSahil Bloom, a writer, asked 90-year-olds what advice they would give their younger selves and received 40 valuable life lessons.

40 Pieces Of Advice From 90-Year-Olds

13. No one has ever argued their way to happiness.

38. If your kid wants to dance in line at the store, join them.

8. Time doesn't heal anything when it comes to relationships. Don't delay difficult conversations.

36. There’s nothing wrong with shedding old relationships as you grow and change.

31. You may win the argument, but if you lose the friend, what was the point?

15. Getting old is no picnic, but it's much better than the alternative.

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11. If something has a minor issue, repair it. Minor issues become major issues over time. Applies equally to love, friendships, health, and home.

18. When you meet someone, look them in the eye, give a firm handshake, and call them by their name.

19. Give everybody a second chance, but never a third.

22. If it's raining on a warm summer evening, go outside and dance in it.

1. Now and then, break out the fancy china and drink the good wine for no reason at all.

3. Tell your partner you love them every night before falling asleep. Someday you’ll find the other side of the bed empty and wish you could.

40. Laugh loudly and unapologetically whenever you feel like it.

9. Find the things that make your eyes light up. Do more of those.

16. You may occasionally disappoint others, but make sure to never disappoint yourself.

4. Don’t fear sadness, as it tends to sit right next to love.

14. If you’re going to lose a fight, make sure the other person thinks twice before fighting you again.

28. Travel as much as you can. Collect one token from every trip to remember it by.

27. When you’re feeling down, smile at yourself in the mirror for a full minute.

12. The most damning lie you can tell is the lie you tell to yourself.

34. If something isn't working and your gut tells you to try harder, first ask whether there's just an easier way to do it.

33. Do one thing that challenges your mind every single day. A crossword puzzle, math problem, anything. Daily “exercise” will keep your mind sharp for the long haul.

17. Never let a good friendship atrophy. Send the text, make the call, plan the trip. Good friendships must be treasured.

2. Dance at weddings until your feet are sore.

5. Treat your body like a house you have to live in for another 70 years.

23. Taking no risk is the biggest risk you can take. Regret from inaction is always more painful than regret from action.

40 Pieces Of Advice From 90-Year-Olds For Living a Fulfilling Life

Sahil Bloom, a writer, asked 90-year-olds what advice they would give their younger selves and received 40 valuable life lessons.

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