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Use Reciprocity to Get Ahead

Use Reciprocity to Get Ahead

Offer value and support to others without expecting anything in return to create goodwill.

People will feel obliged to help you out in return.

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Cialdini breaks down the art of persuasion into six principles: reciprocity, commitment and consistency, social proof, authority, liking, and scarcity.

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