Strengthening perspective
Spend your time alone to
- think about whether your past actions you regret go against your morals. If they do not go against your morals, forget them.
- think about whether you have a positive perspective of your way of life
- before performing an action, shove your emotions aside and think about whether your perspective agrees with whatever you are doing
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