Frame your requests in a way that benefits the other person, appealing to their self-interest.
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Being an ambivert person, I am too much fond of reading, and always eager to learn.
There are some ideas which are really resonating with my characters, like Learn to Keep People Dependent on You, Crush Your Enemy Totally, Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy.
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