Resentment crept in. As I started healing I realized:... - Deepstash

Resentment crept in. As I started healing I realized: I wasn't actually being nice.

I wasn't being nice to myself.

Like most chronic people pleasers, I had no boundaries. This fed a part of me that wanted to feel: needed, important, and like people depended on me. As I slowly started healing myself, I knew I had to break this pattern.


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I can’t tell you how much this summarises my entire life and way of thinking … finally started to be aware that this is not good for myself and starting to change … hard every day

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