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2-step process to change your identity

2-step process to change your identity

  • First, decide the type of person you want to become and second, prove it to yourself with tiny wins.
  • For example:- you want to write a book. Ask yourself, who is the type of person that can write a book? The answer is the person who writes consistently. Now your focus shifted from writing a book (outcome-based) to being the type of person who is consistent(identity-based).
  • You need to know who you want to be and then changing your habits would be easy.
  • Your habits shape your identity and your identity shape your habits. It is a two-way street.

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  1. Eliminate the queue and your habit will never start.
  2. Reduce the craving and you won’t have enough motivation to act
  3. Make the behaviour/response difficult and you won’t be able to do it
  4. And if the reward is unable to satisfy your desire, then you won’t repeat the behav...

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  • Response: The response is the actual habit or action you perform in response to the cue and craving.
  • Reward: The reward is the outcome or benefits you get from completing the habit.
  • Together, these four elements create a habit loop, where the...

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How to create a good habit

How to create a good habit

  • In a nutshell, to build good habits follow the following rule
  1. The 1st law (Cue) → Make it obvious
  2. The 2nd law (Craving) → Make it attractive
  3. The 3rd law (Response) → Make it easy
  4. The 4th law (Reward) → Make it satisfying

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How to break a bad habit

How to break a bad habit

  1. Inversion of the 1st law (Cue) → Make it invisible
  2. Inversion of the 2nd law (Craving) → Make it unattractive
  3. Inversion of the 3rd law (Response) → Make it difficult
  4. Inversion of the 4th law (Reward) → Make it unsatisfying

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Build better habits in four simple steps

Build better habits in four simple steps

  • Before knowing building better habits, first, we need to know the science behind how habits work.
  • Habits form in the following order: Cue → craving → response → reward
  • Cue: A cue is like a trigger or a signal that prompts you to start a habit. It's something ...

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How your habits shape your identity

How your habits shape your identity

  • Outcome-based habits focus on what you want to achieve. Identity-based habits focus on who you wish to become.
  • Usually, people try to change their habits by focusing on what they want to achieve, resulting in outcome-based habits.
  • But the aut...

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Questions to ask if you want  to change your behaviour

Questions to ask if you want to change your behaviour

  1. How can I make it obvious?
  2. How can I make it attractive?
  3. How can I make it easy ?
  4. How can I make it satisfying?
  • If you ever feel why don't I do what I say then the answer can be found somewhere in these four laws.

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rajdha

A Frontend developer, tech enthusiast and a bibliophile.

I understood important facts how we can change our habits.

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For example, “Who is the type of person who could write a book?” It’s probably someone who is consistent and reliable. Now your focus shifts from writing a book (outcome-based) to being the type of person who is consistent and reliable (identity-based).

Your habits shape your id...

True behavior change is identity change

You could choose and start a habit because of motivation, but you'll stick with it only if it becomes part of your identity.

To change your identity:

  1. Establish the kind of person you want to be.
  2. Prove it to yourself with small wins.

Changing your beliefs about yourself

  1. Decide the type of person you want to be;
  2. Prove it to yourself with small wins;

You have to become the type of person you want to be, and that starts with proving your new identity to yourself.

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