Guidepost 1: Cultivating Authenticity - Deepstash

Guidepost 1: Cultivating Authenticity

- Choosing to be authentic means accepting discomfort and criticism at times. It builds self-esteem and real connection. 

- We betray ourselves by trying to be cool or liked rather than embracing imperfections.

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