1. Become genuinely interested in other people
This is the most important principle in Carnegie's book. It's about taking the time to learn about other people's interests and concerns. When you show genuine interest in someone, they're more likely to feel like you're paying attention to them and that you value their company.
His tips for becoming genuinely interested in other people:
- Ask questions about their interests.
- Listen attentively to their answers.
- Show that you're interested by making eye contact, nodding your head, and smiling.
- Find common ground with them.
- Be empathetic and try to see things from their perspective.
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