Charisma is a skill that can be learned by anyone! It has nothing to do with how introverted or extraverted you are.Charisma = warmth + competenceIt is essential to have both of these qualities because without warmth people won't like you and without competence people won't take you seriously. They should feel like they can trust and rely on you.

What Is Charisma?

<ul><li>Nod three times. The other person will talk 70% more because nodding is a sign of warmth.</li><li>Tilt your head.</li><li>Add vocalisations such as "uhm, mhm, aha, oh". They also show warmth.</li><li>Use warm words that you want the other person to feel. "I can't wait to collaborate with you" will make the other person more collaborative. "I'd love to hug you right now" will make them feel the warmth of a hug on their skin.</li><li>Completely front the other person. Angle everything towards the person. The toes show in the direction someone wants to go, so they should be pointing to your partner.</li><li>Mirror their behaviour.</li></ul>

Easy Tips To Enhance Charisma #2

<ul><li>Show your hands, especially the inside of your hands. It will make you more trustworthy and shows that you have nothing to hide.</li><li>On zoom calls, don't sit too close to the camera as you might appear as too upfront. Instead sit at a distance of 1 to 1.5ft away. In person you shouldn't be standing too close to them.</li><li>Lean in and raise your eyebrows when something is interesting.</li><li>Don't end your sentence as a question on a high note. Don't uptalk. You can prevent this by speaking on the out-breath as it will make your voice deeper and hence sound more confident.</li><li>Don't fake smile. People will notice it.</li></ul>

Easy Tips To Enhance Charisma #1

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07:40: What exactly IS charisma and what does it look like?
08:32: Why high achievers can’t just rely on their intelligence.
09:45: Two types of awkward people and how to tell.
16:22: Are you highly competent? Look for these three signs.
19:12:  What highly competent people are missing.
21:11: What highly warm people are missing.
28:34: A simple test that will help you figure out how charismatic you are
33:08: The ONE thing you need to do during the first 10 seconds of your zoom call
37:43: The reason why you keep getting passed over for that promotion
51:58: Why you should never fake a smile 
54:38: Three ways you can start building your charisma today.
1:09:46: Why a second impression is as important as the first
1:31:35:  Five silent cues to command respect in any situation.

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