Selfishness is not an inherently bad thing, it's just a matter of balance. Obviously too much selfishness is bad, and makes you seem self centered and unsympathetic. But too much selflessness is also bad, making it seem like others control your life, and you're not taking charge. It's your life not anyone else's.
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Sanders Sides is a video series created by Thomas Sanders. (Character) Thomas deals with mental health through talking with different sides of personality. There is a lot in these episodes that you can learn about mental health, dealing with conflict, and learning more about yourself everyday.
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