PS :

I pursued happiness like an addict pursues their next hit. I tried everything to try and be happy, but no matter what I tried, it didn’t make happy.

In fact, the opposite happened, it made me miserable.

I was pursuing happiness for the sake of it, there was no meaning behind my pursui...

To shift your thinking from malicious to benign envy, try these phrases:

• “I’m inspired by _____. Maybe I can learn from them, or ask them to be my mentor.”

• “I haven’t done what they’ve done . . . yet.”

• “Every person is on their own journey. I’m grateful for mine.”

Some of the phrases that are used by people with a passive mindset:

• "It’s not my fault that I was late, Traffic was bad."
• "I can’t come, it’s too hot."

Using this type of language acts as a form of self-hypnosis and convinces the person with a p...