To have a successful and productive conversation with your partner about your needs and desires:

• Timing is everything. Set a time aside together that is free of distractions, relatively peaceful, and not when you are overtired.
• Remember, you're on th...

• Destiny Beliefs: I am destined to be with a specific person. I have a soulmate. 
• Growth Beliefs: Relationships progress slowly and we grow to fit together. Relationships take effort. You can build love.

People who believe in soulmates are more likely to brea...

This is the most important principle in Carnegie's book. It's about taking the time to learn about other people's interests and concerns. When you show genuine interest in someone, they're more likely to feel like you're paying attention to them and that you value their company.