This is when the abuser tells the victim that he or she is over-reacting or being overly dramatic to a situation thereby making the victim think or feel that the situation seem less important, insignificant, or complex than it really is, therefore is not supposed to react that way.
The size of discomfort is proportional to the size of the problem. Here, the abuser makes small and downsize something (especially complaint) which is important to the victim and hence expects them to ignore it. Even when they know the victim have a point but because they don’t want to deal with it, they wave it out.
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