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Tips & Tricks

Tips & Tricks

  • Be yourself no matter the circumstances. You better fail by showing yourself than thrive but feel dead inside.
  • People will sense you faking a behavior. You are not an actor – you can’t pretend to be someone else.
  • Stick to what worked for you in the past. You don’t have to reinvent the wheel. Behave as always, and you will build trust with the right people.

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Tips & Tricks

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  • Listen carefully to spot requests for help. Sometimes, people won’t admit they need help (been there.) But they will appreciate your offering solutions.
  • Don’t make people feel stupid. Suggest new idea...

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THE CHALLENGE OF THE WEEK

The only way to build trust and lasting relationships is by being yourself and showcasing your good and bad traits.

Not everyone will enjoy both. But at least you tried.

So, this is your chal...

THE CHALLENGE OF THE WEEK

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6 – Show confidence.

6 – Show confidence.

I often discuss confidence in my articles because it’s the turning point in people’s lives. However, I receive messages from readers who say they are too introverted to show confidence. Yet, confidence has nothing to do with being an introvert or extrovert.

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4 – Admit mistakes and failures.

4 – Admit mistakes and failures.

Nobody loves the I-know-everything type of person – that’s one thing we could all agree on.

They are often arrogant. They make people feel stupid. And they have little empathy to understand what’s wrong with their behavior.

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Tips & Tricks

  • Being friends with anyone doesn’t mean you have to build deep relationships with the entire group. A little bit of trust with everyone is enough. Make them feel validated by your words. And they will stick with you.

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2 – Be friends with anyone. (1)

2 – Be friends with anyone. (1)

When you are friends with everyone, you’ll never be alone. And that’s a good thing.

But the best thing about being friends with everyone is they will compete for your attention.

I don’t want t...

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Tips & Tricks

Tips & Tricks

  • Reveal your mistakes and failures and show people what you learned. Those confessions will give you something to laugh about together. And they will incentivize people to share ideas and similar experiences.
  • A...

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Tips & Tricks

Tips & Tricks

  • Ask people if they want to go out and tell them they can bring who they wish. It will make them feel safer and more willing to go out.
  • Don’t insist too much. Everyone has a private li...

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Tips & Tricks

Tips & Tricks

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The Trust Rulebook

The Trust Rulebook

I am not a shy person. And I usually speak a lot with people when I meet someone new. But not if I am in an unknown territory.

Things get complicated if you don’t know the place or the people. You are out of your comfort zone

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The Challenge

The Challenge

You are reading an excerpt from The Challenge, a newsletter where I discuss self-improvement, goal-setting, habits, time management, and health tips and tricks.

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Tips & Tricks

Tips & Tricks

  • Wait for a moment of weakness when people will open up more. And when that happens, it’s your moment to share a deep story. There’s only one thing to be careful about – you must find a connection to what your interlocutor was saying.

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7 – Help others thrive.

7 – Help others thrive.

There’s a big difference between an acquaintance and a friend. And if you want to enter the second group, you must help people thrive.

When I was in high school, I only focused on my success. I wanted to crush the competiti...

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5 – Promote big gatherings.

5 – Promote big gatherings.

Going out in small groups, you will only connect with a few people. And, especially in the beginning, the risk of awkward moments is very high.

But if you promote big gatherings, it becomes easier.

  • You can...

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How to Navigate the Minefield of New Relationships

How to Navigate the Minefield of New Relationships

I remember the knot in my stomach as I walked into my new office a year ago.

A new team, a fresh start, and a nagging uncertainty – would they ever trust me?

Building trust can feel like navig...

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3 – Speak your soul out.

3 – Speak your soul out.

Once you build a trust bridge with everyone, you can pick your preferences and go deeper with them. You can transform that trust into lasting friendships or even love interests.

So how do you build deeper trust with someone...

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Pick a preference

Pick a preference

In Italian, they use “preferire” as the verb to express a preference. But that word comprises two parts:

  • “Pre,” which means before, or first.
  • And “ferire,” which means to hurt.

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1 – Don’t change your attitude.

1 – Don’t change your attitude.

Whenever I enter a new group, I want them to like me. I change my attitude based on people’s mood and style. But when I started my new job, I understood that wasn’t me.

I am not a shy person who only answers questions. I am the one m...

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2 – Be friends with anyone. (2)

2 – Be friends with anyone. (2)

At my workplace, I used to interact only with my team members. But then I switched teams twice and got to know all my colleagues.

I didn’t have a great relationship with my old team members. But as I went out with others, they became more ca...

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Passionate about self-improvement, personal growth, finance, and creativity. I love to inspire people to become the better version of themselves. Author @ www.cosmopolitanmindset.com

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