5 – Promote big gatherings.
Going out in small groups, you will only connect with a few people. And, especially in the beginning, the risk of awkward moments is very high.
But if you promote big gatherings, it becomes easier.
- You can speak with more people and connect with all of them.
- There can’t be awkward moments because you can simply talk with someone else or include them in the conversation.
- And you can showcase your role in the group, whether you are a leader or anything else. You will find your place.
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