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3 – Showcase your qualities. (2)

3 – Showcase your qualities. (2)

For most of my life, I showcased my qualities by boasting. But people hate it when you do it.

But do you know what they love?

They love it when you showcase your qualities by helping them.

Focus on what they’re saying and find a way to help people. Let them know you are a good listener and care about them. And they will naturally gravitate towards you.

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Thinking about all those variables will keep your mouth shut. And somebody else will steal the scene. So speak now! Before it’s too late.

Say something, even stupid, but at least it’s something.

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The Two Truths About Confidence

The Two Truths About Confidence

  • The first thing I learned about confidence is that people feel your fear and insecurities. And most of them will repel you for that.
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1 – Polarize the crowd. (2)

1 – Polarize the crowd. (2)

So, what’s the solution?

Simple! Polarize people and only engage with those who stay.

Don’t waste your time trying to convince them you are worth it. If they know, they know. Otherwise, they’l...

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1 – Polarize the crowd. (1)

1 – Polarize the crowd. (1)

You can’t be friends with anyone – it doesn’t matter how hard you try. And the sooner you realize it, the faster you can channel your energies in the right direction.

I learned about compatibility by being friends with anyone.

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    4 – Use irony and (always) smile. (1)

    4 – Use irony and (always) smile. (1)

    I always banter and smile when I talk to people.

    Bantering and irony are two of the greatest skills you can learn to show confidence and build strong connections. When you use irony and dive into the game of bantering, you expose you...

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    2 – Narrate your dressing routine. (1)

    2 – Narrate your dressing routine. (1)

    Storytelling is the winning card of the most confident people. It is a way to connect with others that confidence alone cannot provide. But most people don’t learn it because it takes time and effort.

    You can

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    5 – Focus on doing, not saying.

    5 – Focus on doing, not saying.

    Storytelling is great for creating connections and showing confidence. But deep relationships require much more.

    I learned it when I built so many relationships I stopped counting them. But I realized I didn’t know much about those people.

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    How to Become the Center of Attention

    How to Become the Center of Attention

    I hated it when nobody asked about my life. I thought I had a lot to share and deserved good friends. But, it turns out, both things were false.

    • I didn’t have anything interesting to share.

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    4 – Use irony and (always) smile. (2)

    4 – Use irony and (always) smile. (2)

    You show no fear when you expose yourself. You show truthfulness and genuine interest. And you will attract people because of that.

    Anybody will want a positive buddy by their side. So, why don’t you become one of them?

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    The Attention Craving

    The Attention Craving

    We are human beings – we crave attention. And we crave attention because we are human beings.

    Our mind never stops being aware of our surroundings. Who’s talking? What are they saying?

    Do they speak about me?

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    The Challenge

    The Challenge

    You are reading an excerpt from The Challenge, a newsletter where I discuss self-improvement, goal-setting, habits, time management, and health tips and tricks.

    Every week, you will get the following:

    • a challenge to ...

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    3 – Showcase your qualities. (1)

    3 – Showcase your qualities. (1)

    Have you ever tried to convince someone to buy anything?

    Usually, there are two steps you use unconsciously:

    • First, you create an emotional link with the potential buyers. You talk about t...

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    2 – Narrate your dressing routine. (2)

    2 – Narrate your dressing routine. (2)

    However, no matter the story you are telling, don’t lie. You can insist on a few things to prove your point. But don’t lie because someone might discover your bluff, and it’s hard to recover.

    Your goal is to become so good a...

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    Before you Go

    Before you Go

    If you loved the newsletter and want to support my work, subscribe and share The Challenge with your friends and families!

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    THE CHALLENGE OF THE WEEK

    Confidence attracts people and allows you to find your tribe. But to do that, you must become confident first.

    1 – Polarize the crowd.

    2 – Storytell your dressing routine.

    THE CHALLENGE OF THE WEEK

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