Blame The Game And Not The Player
Being a people pleaser disables one from taking conflict of any form. The idea about going into a conflict situation is so hyper to these people, that "you're wrong" is something they would never say unless they know the person too well.
The very first step for change in pleasing personality is to learn to take on conflicts. And to take on conflicts there's nothing better than "Blame the game and not the player". It is an effective way to indirectly communicate people their faults without being a pain in the ass.
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Conflicts cannot avoided in life, especially the ones you face in daily lives . These situation may arise anytime with anyone be it colleagues, juniors, boss, friends and family members etc etc. The article below highlights one of the best ways to resolve such situations.
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