For them is not for you
We fear often to the things we know something might bad will happen. We tend to visualize in our mind that if it goes this way, maybe this way will turn out this way.
But what if I tell you that it is all wrong? because what you are thinking is just a fragments of a puzzled thoughts, not a certain reality that you think can happen in the future. If you see a man is being rude inside the restaurants because it's taking too long to get his order, you also might feel irritated because of his actions or the service in the restaurant. But did you also think, what else can you do?
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